What do you give someone who has everything

What do you give to someone who given there all to you?

What do you give heart so true?

Do you give love?

Yes, unfeigned.

Do you give joy?

Yes, unrestrained.

And what do you say to a love that's true?

What do you say when someone gives it to you?

Do you speak of love?

Yes, many times.

Do speak of joy?

Yes, with reasons and rhymes.

What do you think of one so dear?

What do you feel when love is near?

Do you think of love?

Yes, in my dreams.

Do you feel joy?

Yes, deeper now, it seems.

Where will this lead when our journey over?

Where will it be and will there be more?

Will there be love?

Yes, deep and strong.

Will there be joy?

Forever my spirit's song.



What it feels like to give everything in your submission to a true Master of your soul.

My voice

"When the morning awakes you,
listen to my voice softly calls,
beckoning you to arise to new wonders.

Listen for my footsteps as I arrive with the down.

I will not delay my coming to you.

Warm yourself in my memory,
With each breath of the day,
I whisper your name on wind.

I will be there.
As the sunshine's,
and birds sing,
my love will prevail."




A love between a Master and his submissive feels like this.

Spirit song

"Walk with me spirit song,
and sing gently to me in the night of our love.
Tell me of grass so sweet,
And lying in the sun together.
Tell me of the moonlight and starlight somehow joined has one,
Forming an endless blanket of light for our roof.
And then, My lady fair, tell me that it will never end."

Night dreams

" I just can't seem to get it right,

I'm wrong by day and wrong by night,

I really think this feeling never ends.

Why can't I have normal life,

Not filled with all this pain and strife.

Why is it we just have to be just friends?

If I was there with you right now,

I know we'd never wonder how,

We could please each other when we meet.

I'd kiss your lips and brush your hair,

And show you just how much I care,

I can't imagine anything as sweet.

But you are there and I'm here,

This is the thing that I must fear.

That we will never meet in warm embrace.

Darling , tell me I am wrong,

Sing for me, My spirit song,

Tell me that you long to see my face.

Tell me you long for me,

Tell me how you long to be,

With me every minute of the day.

Tell me, When I long for you.

That you are there, and feel it, too,

Listen to the words I long to say.

I long to tell you how I care,

I long to show you I'll be there,

When all the world around you comes apart.

And when I think of your sweet kiss,

My darling, just remember this,

No one else will ever have my heart.

So, here's to us here in the night,

Our burning love our only light,

To lead and guide us, through these lonely times.

Here's to love and joy and peace,

And memories that will never cease,

As long as I can love you in my rhymes."

This poem reminds me of D/s relationship what it is like to bond and what it like to be apart from your Dominant.

21 steps to Home bome business success

Some simple steps I learned when I was talking business in collage.

Step 1 Decide what part of the house to use.

Step 2 Determine how much time you can spend on the business.

Step 3 Decide on the type of business.

Step 4 Choose a Legal form

            Proprietorship (Sole proprietorship)

              -you own all the profits

              -your the boss

              -you enjoy certain tax savings

              -greater personal incentive and satisfaction 

            Satisfaction 

             -partnership

             -corporation

Step 5 Determine where the money comes from.

Step 6 Gather information. 

Step 7 Check on zoning restrictions.

Step 8 Pick a Business name and register it. 

Step 9 Write a business plan.

Step 10 Get an identifying number.

Step 11 Obtain a sales tax permit.

Step 12 Obtain licenses permit.

Step 13 Select Business cards, stationery, brochures.

Step 14 Open a Business checking account.

Step 15 Setup record keeping systems

Step 16 Check IRS requirements.

Step 17 Outfit the business

Step 18 Decide telephone requirements.

Step 19 Check out the post office and ups

Step 20 Purchase the necessary insurance.

Step 21 Organize the house and your self.

Good recourses to check out are.

www.sab.gov/tools/resourcelibrary/publications/.

www.business.gov

www.homebusinessmag.com

www.homeworkingmom.com

www.nase.org

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Pantry Storage tips

Save time and make things easier

1) Get ride of all mismatched storage containers get up right air tight and leak proof Tupperware

2) Place VIPs front and center in pantry, fridge and drawers.

3) Label pantry and fridge shelves with removeable labels.

Save time with meal preping

Spend more time getting other things done by prepping ahead of time. 

1) Rinse once place all fruits and veggies in colander rinse them all together then put them in a clean towel to dry.

2) Chill before you chop  put in the freezer for 10-15 minutes before chopping use that time to do other things.

3) Slice smaller the finer the slices the short the time to cook.

4) Sharpen knife often, shaper knife makes cutting better and cleaner cutting.

5) Cool faster Spread cooking grains and sauces or veggies on baking sheet to cool them quickly.

Make over for a new you

We all need a fresh look because of break up or just to feel better or even for a new job. Here are some simple steps.


1) Hair - Get a new hairstyle. This is most important thing to make you feel good.
     Color your hair
     Use the right products

2) Skin - Use a skin care regimen, take care of your skin it covers your whole body
     Drink lots of water
     Remove make up before bed
     Always moisturize before bed
     Exercise it helps your skin clear up and take in more oxygen
     Protect your skin with sunscreen

3)Make up - Go for tasteful
     Don't over due eye makeup
     Clean up eyebrows
     Wear the right color lipstick or gloss
     Apply eyeliner

4) Nails - Trim and cut and clean. Always good to touch up and apply color it helps with your mood and helps you feel better getting them done.

5) Body - Exercise and eat right regularly it's important to your health. Be sure to get enough rest.

6) Fashion - Update your wardrobe good time to clean out your closet. Fall in love with accessories, and don't forget your shoes.



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I love being a submissive to my man

Don't be fooled by the title, I'm not here to encourage women to be dumb, or be a housewife, and helpless, and have no options.

I'm here to teach to encourage who you are.

I'm not saying you have to be submissive all the time.

You can be submissive part time or full time depending the relationship and who you are.

The reason I want to talk about this is to bring you closer together and bring more passion into the relationship.

If it is received by a man with love and respect, it is a gift to cherish.

Being a submissive is not something you do for abusive man.

being a submissive allows a man to feel more like a man, doesn't have to be about being weak or being wrong.

Part of being part of your femininity feeling different part of yourself that you feel in your body, you get to have when you submit and learning to be more feminine has well.

Now this brings me to some of the things that meaning behind submissive, opening up, ability to be uncertain, trust and surrendering. I will go over each thing.

Opening up- The man want's his woman to be open to him and let him in emotionally, mentally, sexually and spiritually.

Trust- Today society leads men to be rapist but there is men out there standing up for what is right. Being a submissive you have to trust enough to let him show you the way, and asking for his help, his opinions, his solution. Many men are touched by this. Many will jump at the chance to help with something. He want's to give you a good Direction to add to your life, to be trust worthy.

Ability to be uncertain- This is where the submissive is powerful and strong. It is okay for a submissive to be uncertain. She has to let her guard down and be free and let go. The man is the source of your strength when you need it. If you can't trust you can't be free to let go.

Surrendering- This is a big part know your a submissive. It's surrender to a man leadership and strength. Allowing your relationship to flow and be free.


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Author Natalie. S.

Website resources list

Alexa.com (measures traffic)
Alistapart.com (info on web design)
Affiliate-program.Amazon.com
Blogger.com
dailgblogtips.com ( helpful tips )
delicious.com (bookmark)
dig.com ( social news )
doshdosh.com
google com/AdSense
google.com/alerts
google.com/analytics
Livejournal.com
mashable.com ( blog about social networking)
Movabletype.org (blog publishing service)
MySpace.com
Newstrust.net (social news site)
Nielsen-netratings.com
Problogger.net (helpful tips)
Reddit.com
Sitemeter.com
Statcounter.com
Stumbleupon.com
Technorat.com
Toptut.com
Twitter.com
Typepad.com
Webbyawards.com
WordPress.com
Buzz.yahoo.com
Publisher.yahoo.com


Note: I will add to this list from time to time

10 Basic blogging sites

10 Basic blogging sites


1) WordPress
2) Squarespace
3) Blogger
4) Typepad
5) Weebly
6) Tumblr
7) Quora
8) Ghost
9) Xanga
10) Livejournal

7 Basic blog formats

7  Basic blog formats

1) Link only
2) Link blurb
3) Brief remark
4) List
5) Short article
6) Long article
7) Series posting

My meditation notes

Stylish
Evidence of grammatical trauma
Routine
Who takes sleeping pills
Whole foods
Mind proper attitude
Can be Buddhist
Victorian caution
Or even obedience "mind your manners"
Zen is Buddhist trandition
Meditation of it's religious origings
Kabat-zinn believed that many of the secular people who could most benefit from meditation many get turned of reincarnation and other religious esoterica that clung to it.
New and pleasing definition of mind fullness one that now makes no mention of enlightenment. The awareness that arises through paying attention on the purpose of the present moment and non-judgmentally.
Buddhist meditation nosed it's way personal growth and even success strategies.
The idea people might over come psychological and physiology with comforting thoughts and other names: positive thinking.
Write a self-help book
Positive thinking, prayer or affirmation therapy as surefire, scientific techniques
there books on it.
Where ever you go, there you are: mindfulness meditation in everyday life by kabat-zinn
Mindful work
The mindful way through depression
Mindful birthing
Mindful movements
The mindful child
The mindful teen
(2 books called) mindful eating
The mindful way
Through stress
Buddhist meditation called vipassana (insight) or form of the another kind of meditation know as anapanasmrti ( awareness of the breath)
Keeps you focused on the task at hand. It keeps you in tune.
Mindfulness is keeping in tune.

Note: I also have this posted on my other blog.

Best money saving apps

Cash back
Ebates    special discounts
Shopkick. Scan bar codes to make points
Ibotta.   Get rebates when perform tasks
Checkout51. Rewards you for buying pantry staples

Shopping cart
Berrychart    saves you cash for healthy food
Goodrx       shop around for bargains
Cellfire.       Organize digital coupons
Favado.      Compare prices at near by grocery
Retale.         Delivers weekly digity circulars
Shopadvisor.  Monitors and tracks price trends
Smoopa        combines social media and price check
Raise.             Gift cards


Your finances
Mint   track spending
Youneedabudget. Track spending and classes
MasterCard nearby.    Free ATM finder
Shoeboxed.        Montior miles and receipts
Billguard by Experian.  Tracks spending and add security
Readyforzero.    Links to loans and credit cards
Credit karma.      Monitors your credit scores
Acorns.                Links credit and debit cards
Spartypig.             Online piggy bank
Seekingalpha.      Delivers investment advise


Your home
Hotpads.        List homes for rent or sale
Lendingtree.   Access to mortgage lenders
Iscape.           Helps you plan your yard
Diytipgenius.   Fix it yourself
Smith.      Gives you competitive quotes

Your car
Car gurus                    buy it
Bankrate auto app.    Insure it
MapQuest mobile.     Drive it
Gasbaddy.                   Full it
Parkwhiz.                    Park it
Openbay.                     Fix it


Your family
Olink   raise budget minded kids
Gravy  finds things for kids to do
Viggle. Free entertainment
Scoutmub   save on city fun
Onavo extand    cut streaming cost
Crackle  watch shows for nothing
Trave zoo. Plan to get away
Happy hour finder     cut cost on dating night
Kids meal deals.  Feed a crowd
Trivago.        Get a room in advance
Hotel tonight.   Last minute
Airbnb.      Reserve something
Grab hub     take a bite out of take out
Cozi.         Know/who/when/where
Carpool kids.    Get them a ride
Aboutone.       Keep in the know

My how to blog notes part 3

Use twitter.com as a micro blogging subscription service that delivers text based messages via instant messaging and email.
1) Email lists
2) Facebook/MySpace
3) Respond to comments
Helps people know you made new blog posts.
Ways to help your blog show up in the top of the list on search engine.
(Google) www.google.com/addurl/
(Yahoo) http://siteexplorer.search.yahoo.com/submit
(MSN) Search.msn.com/docs/submit.aspx
Tips to get more traffic
- Number of times you use the key word
- Topic people will link to you
- Creat Blogroll links to other blogs
- Ask other blogs to guest blog for you
- Send other blogs content from your blog

Buzz.yahoo.com (allow you find posts)
Dig.com (like you)
Delicious.com (social booking)

Ad's making money
Google.com/AdSense
Amazon.com/associates
Publisher.yahoo.com

Blogging rules
1. Blog often
2. Perfect is the enemy of done
3. Write like you speak
4. Focus of specific detail
5. Own your topic
6. Know your audience
7. Write short
8. Become part of the conversation like minded blogs

Building community
- Create clear community
- Ask readers for imput
- Read and respond to your comments
- Rate and reward good comments
- Keep the conversation going
- Make yourself accessible
- Admit when you are wrong
- Nix spam
- Keep people in line

My how to blog notes part 2

First thing to do is choose your blogging service.
- www.blogger.com (good for first timers)
- www.typeped.com ($4.95-89.95)
- www.livejournal.com
- www.wordpress.org or www.wordpress.com (you can build or great with a team)
- www.movabletype.com ( $295.95 for five users or $99.95 for non-profit)
Other options is social media like
- Facebook
- MySpace
These also help bring traffic to your blogs.
More ways
- Tublerblogs (www.tumblr.com)
-Podcasts (audacity.sourceforge.net
- Vlogs
   Can also post in lots of places
        - build buzz
        - YouTube
- Photolog or sketchblog (focus on photos)
Set up your blog
- Template
- Header ( Your logo
- Titles
- Date and time (try having it say at the same time)
- Tags
- Bios (this is about me)
- Blogroll (links to favorite blogs)
- Sidebar (links to info on the side of your post)
- Photos and art
  - istock photo (small fee)
- Poll quotes
- Linking (Do on to others has they do on to them) you can hundredfold
- Comments
Sitemeter.com (Let's me know how many visits per day, week, and last hour.
Statcounter.com
Google.com/gnulytics
    - AdWords account
Google web alert let's you know when your mentioned on others on yours or websites
Best way to start blogging is to start and blog often.
Write it quickly and get it out there.

My how to blog notes

Has submissive it's important to write down your feelings in some way. I used to have a notebook and pen with all the time and then I got told about blogging and that I would be great and at it. Here is my notes on blogging so you can get started if it's right for you.


Blog is like
- Television network
- A print newspaper
- Magazine

We have no
- Brand
- Team of reporters

Can start with one to multilayered internet newspaper.
From
- Aggregated news
- Politics minded blogs
- Obsessive coverage of everything
From
- Entertainment
- Environment
- Business
- Fashion

Can go from a team  of two to fifty. Internet is always changing and rearranging it's up to the minute.
Like if you don't like the color red you just paint right over it and make it blue.
Coninue to grow in the present.
Stay focused on the bigger picture.
The problem media outlets are always moving on to quickly on the next big hot score.
The stories weren't being covered in obsessed way the break through.
Someone spent life trolling in world of books, syndicated newspapers, column writing where the eternal veritas beginning/middle/end are the Rosetta Stone of structure.
Blogs are by nature very personal and intimate, often expression the blogger passions. Your very much more intimate, when your writing.
When your writing blog, when your writing your column, let alone a book.
You may start out writing about politics but in the end you write about yourself, about the things you care about beyond politics.
This creates a close bond between the blogger and the audience.
Blog/book connection

Blog types
- Blogger
- Typepad
- LiveJournal
You can blog by using
- Podcasting
- Video blogs
- Vlogs
- Tumblrlogs
Measuring traffic by
- Sitemeter
- Slat counter
- Google anmics
Make money on your blog by
-Google AdSense
-Amazon associates
-Yahoo
-Publisher network
Consistent about posting, Reglur Updating (I'm any blogs post many times a day.)
If you want to build a relationship choose a topic you'll be able to post about at least once a week.
- Jot down and ideas about the first few days you would like to write about.
- Keep it short
- Stand out
- Want it to do a lot of heavy lefting

I submit

I submit because it's satisfying and I crave it, but that doesn't explain why.
I submit because I lack self discipline and I need to be accountable for my mistakes. I need structure and guidance in order to function.
Being able to submit, it makes me a better person.
I'm aware I can do this on my own and I can do this and achieve my goals on my own, but actually fellow through its a struggle and most likely won't happen.
To submit and do this it has to be with the right person to allow Him to help me achieve what I need to do.
Has a Dominant needs to guide, support and protect and in return as submissive I feel the need to be protected. I follow equally and support my Dominant by submitting to Him.
I have tendency to over help people and stretch myself to thin without hesitation, without having the force behind me I exhaust myself as I done in the past. I need rules put in place. I need to know what to expect.

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Author Natalie. S.

your house needs to feel your soul

A house needs to feel your soul. Ask yourself is your house bigger then your dream?
More space does not equal more comfort.
A house that fits your lifestyle actually gives you more space to live in.
a home should be
cozy
elegant
introverted
light-filled
spare
exciting
dramatic
sumptuous
homely
classic
masculine
welcoming
private
modest
impressive
delicate
friendly
*keep a place, journal and  three binder assemble data about place make you feel comfortable document it, take photos, notes, diagrams.
in Victorian house they followed social code. visitors were ushered into formal parlor. Dinner was served in a formal dinning room.
Take a look at your existing home. make a list of every room, list what happens in each room.
to make any floorplan work, there has to be a balance between open spaces and closed, between public and private.
in the Victorian era, The kitchen was so private that most family members never set foot inside it. it was entirely the territory of servants.
If a space is to be private, remove it from sight and locate it away from the main traffic areas. "out of sight out of mind"
Idea office attached to Master bedroom. if your working from home. It's better to create a space that is separate and private.
Mater bedroom should have privet bathroom.
sunroom or a porch ?
sunroom good for reading, eating or company.
A place of one's own can be in a corner of Master bedroom.
"Do not keep anything in your home that you do not know to be useful or believe to be beautiful"
Home center
phone
calendar
bulletin board
phone books/ address books
mail
Home journals
Make cozy space to do think, select the two or three you enjoy doing the most. making dream home wish list.
-Make list of all dreams/visions
-Drawings
-Pictures
Then make list of the musts (reality list)
-list needs
Step 1 getting started (inspirations)
anyone can decorate on any budget
-Define the colors you love
-Styles of furniture
In the notebook collect your design ideas and jot down your decorating dreams. Then divide them into projects that can accomplish in a day or week or month and those that will take a long term commitment.
Look for inspiration everywhere and anywhere.
In your design book
-Add things from magazines, and catalogs
-Snap shots
-Colors
-Fabric
-Furniture
-Dreams and ideas
Can look for things at
-Internet
-Flea markets and swap meets
-Auctions
-Thrift, resale and consignment shops
Bringing nature indoors
-Collect natural memories
   -small rock
   -shell
   -driftwood
-Make good use of greens
   -leaves in vase or glasses
   -tailored or herb topiaries in clay pot
-Enjoy fresh flowers everyday
luxe for less
-Small luxuries, big dividends
   -good sheets
   -plush towels
   -down pillows
   -fine soaps
-Enjoy candlelight and fresh flowers
   -scented candles
   -once a week fresh flowers
Add dressmaker details
   -dress up pillows
   -curtains
Get framed
-Child's artwork
-Family photograph
-Art from book
-Pressed fern
Home with color
-Open box crayons pick first color catches your eye
How do you react to the color?
Warm colors move you?
or clean?
or clear coolness?
Top the power of color
-Color affect the mood
-Make small space seem larger
   -use soft, cool
      -pale gray
      -Ivory
      -light blue
      -white
      -Ivorory
-Make a large space seem smaller
   - use deep rich colors
-Play up small space
   -Dark warm colors are more intimate
- Go room to room painting two or more spaces open from one another.
Right lighting and good lighting
Low light makes dark, rich colors and rooms even more intimate.
Bright lights makes a vibrant colors appear more intense.
-Use multiple sources
   -Over lighting (chandeliers)
   -Task lighting  (lamps)
   - Mood lighting (control lighting)
Arranging art
- plan ahead - figure out your arrangement before you start.
- Stay in line
- Mix or match
  - different styles, sizes
- Get artistic

When I tell you

When I tell you about kneeling,

When I tell you about how,

kneeling makes me feel.

It's about relaxing,

When I kneel something in me let's go.

I kneel I'm free

Then I was second ago

I kneel before Him.

My Master

I don't worry 

about should of

could of

He decides

I'm in His arms

I kneel before Him

I worship Him

I melted at His feet

on my knees

My submission

A deep offering

I kneel before Him

I feel the love and tenderness

in His eyes

Taking me in

looking down at me

I'm free 

under you

my place

my home

I'm safe

it's very precious

intense moment.

Author Natalie. S.