Behaving like proper Ol lady just like submissive

Don't walk into meeting and demand to be takin home.

General rule. You Man or any Man is in conversation with another, regardless of the weather, pouring rain, sit down where he told you to sit until He through with whatever He is conversing about. It doesn't matter if it's business or if He is discussing on someone dick. Know your place, sit your ass down and wait until He is done.Talk to another woman or play one your phone read book, but do not disturb them. Do not interrupt the Men. Women should be seen not heard, if your heard it should be laughing and joking and being a good girl., not complaining.

Show some manners. don't spread your legs, nasty and slutty, don't get drunk and embarrass your Ol man Don't make eyes and hit on other men.

Be clean wash yourself, wash your hair, put on clean clothes, wear bra, put on little make-up  be respectful. Don't look like you just got off work, be something to be proud of. You are a reflection of your Ol man.

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What does it mean to be ol lady it is a lot like being submissive if not the same.

Ol lady to Ol Man that lives the lifestyle in MC, RC, independent, or in a 1% MC. Here  is the pros and cons of being in part of your Ol Mans life in the motorcycle lifestyle. First and foremost, an Ol ladies top responsibility is to see that your Ol Man is set up for success. Prepare and plan ahead for meals and camping amenities anything and everything.

A great meal brings people together be willing to give and be apart. Your Ol Man getting signatures with the Elders is very important. Elders is because. they are the Veterans of the Club. They are the ones that can see through all bullshit and know who is genuine and who is not..

Most important is to be  friendly and non judgmental towards your new acquaintance. There will be a time  when you will encounter the pleasure of meeting. This is a time to shine, saying NO is not out of the question , it's how you do it. H old on to your options and not talking shit really pays off. Some people will test your boundaries and see if you keep your cool and handle your boundaries.

Say way from Club Business talk. Your Ol Man is engaging with conversation with others men be polite and never intervene unless it is a bloody emergency. If it is bloody emergency apologize for interrupting and state your emergency. Staying out of the conversation with other ladies with gossip. You want to be the one to bring people together.

Know the history of the club. The Ol ladies will be the Nomands or Elders Ol ladies, they can see through the bullshit and know you are a genuine or not.

B consistent with who you are. The feeling of sisterhood will grow, and will be glad for it. these sis will be there for you. The unspoken brotherhood among the motorcycle lifestyle reaches wide across the world, the sisterhood does has well.. The Ol lady part that glues them together, who call each other brothers. Be who you are in the beginning and you won't have to change a thing. The way you maintain your attitude is that your Ol Man never has to answer for their Ol lady attitude.

Swingers some are open this way, you and your Ol Man will find those couples, if your not into this gig just nicely state that it's something your not into.

Keep your drinking to a nice buzz is recommended that, don't be Ol lady that is slobbering drunk and needs to be tedded to, don't be the one get's drunk and starts fight, look bad on your Ol Man.



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I submit

I submit because it's satisfying and I crave it, but that doesn't explain why.
I submit because I lack self discipline and I need to be accountable for my mistakes. I need structure and guidance in order to function.
Being able to submit, it makes me a better person.
I'm aware I can do this on my own and I can do this and achieve my goals on my own, but actually fellow through its a struggle and most likely won't happen.
To submit and do this it has to be with the right person to allow Him to help me achieve what I need to do.
Has a Dominant needs to guide, support and protect and in return as submissive I feel the need to be protected. I follow equally and support my Dominant by submitting to Him.
I have tendency to over help people and stretch myself to thin without hesitation, without having the force behind me I exhaust myself as I done in the past. I need rules put in place. I need to know what to expect.

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Author Natalie. S.

He never asked

Never asked to kneel
I gave freely

Never ordered me to obey
I gave freely

I surrender freely

My body, heart, mind, and soul

And all that should remain of me
I gave freely

I'm dedicated

To what bonds us both

My life

Is happy at His feet



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Author Natalie. S.

Trust your horse

When I was training for barrel racing my grandpa always said trust your horse. Lately I been thinking alot about that lesson what did he really mean was there more to it. I think there could be. When I was riding my horse we were one everyone said when they watch me said you natrule when it comes to riding. You ride with the horse. He leads you follow when we were in that arena there nothing but me and my horse everything else did not matter.

Now I look at my D/s relationship it the same I put my trust in my Master everything else does not matter. My Master leads I follow.

If you put your trust in a relationship it work everything else doesn't matter you need to have that trust for it work.

This is what my grandpa was telling me for it to work you have to trust or you will fail. What happens when you fail you fall off the horse.

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Let Him down

Sometimes I don't feel good enough when I let my Master down.
But then he teaches me with a lesson
I begin to understand
But then He gives me the words that my soul deeply craves.
That's when I know I will be ok
He knows my soul and what I need,
better than I do.
He leads and I follow
This is only way I know.

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Behavior

A submissive behavior should be very lady like. Any temper tantrum, lying, casual swearing, showing disrespect to his friends, being drunk in public, or any kind of public scene is huge disrespect to him and is couse for a  more serious punishment.
A good submissive should know to be on best behavior and want to make him look good in public because she knows she repersent him and it please him.


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I am a submissive

You have these moments at 2am, laying in bed your mind wonders. You get these nagging feelings. So you tell yourself your being stupid, so you shake it off. And your back to to saying everything alright you are back being satisfied.
But these feelings keep occurring are triggers, by interaction with people that can't handle you correctly or understand you. It's like you live in tunal. You don't know witch way to turn. You feel alone, lost scard. She looks in the mirror "Who am I?"
Your watching TV you see people fucking, it turns you on. And your friends laugh and joke about the scene but you understand the scene, and you have the arge to touch yourself. "Who am I?"
Your at the store and you see a sexy a sexy outfit, You know no one wears it that hag out with. But you have the feeling and the need to wear it. "Who am I?
You have this craving and this powerful need to ask permission to eat, sleep, work how I dress, when I workout, spend, drive, and orgasm." "Who I am?"
I kneel before Him with so much pride, love, and I feel safe, I feel at home with Him. He cares for all my needs, He sees throw me. I am able to be who I am with Him
I am a submissive and that is who I am.


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Slave training part three Becoming a better you

What makes a good submissive, and what the submissive can work on to inprove themselves.

Respectful - Show your Dominant respect. As a submissive you should come from a place of giving.

Polite - Goes along with respectful.

Key factor - You must remember every time you step out your front door you are representing yourself, your training, and your Dominant. Being rude and disrespectful to others looks bad not only on you, but it looks very bad on your Dominant. Make your Dominant proud showing how well behaved you are.

Honest - Dominant needs your honesty to be able to Dominant you and know they are not hurting or harming you in any way shape or form.

Good communicater - Much of what a submissive does is listen and learn from their Dominant.

Open - A good submissive is always open to the idea that they are never perfect and are always learning whether it's
        - New way to serve your Dominant
        - Improve yourself
        - Better submissive

Supportive - Willing to stick with Dominant through the tough times.

Can admit and accept a mistake -

Trust -  Trust is earned but at the same time it can't work unless there is trust.

Trust worthy - A Dominant needs to know they can trust you to be open and honest about your thoughts, feelings, and emotions.

Confidence - No body wants to Dominant a submissive with no confidence.

Loyal - Happy to be in your (Dom) service, open, vulnerable, and happy.

Dedication - If you are choosing to enter into service, then you need to dedicate yourself to the choice you made. ( Choosing to be submissive to a Dominant is a beautiful gift )

Kind and considerate - Always looks good representing a Dominant when out in the world.

Empathy and sympathy - A submissive needs to be empathetic, understanding and supportive will create an unbreakable bond.

Find pleasure from pleasing -

Gratitude - feel honored and grateful for being allowed to serve the Dominant. Show gratitude, be thankful.
   - Be picky who you choose
   - Take your time
   - Choose your Dominant wisely, but love the Dominant deeply when they treat you right.

Slave training part 2 trust

You need to be able to trust your partner and be trustworthy.

BDSM play is a truly breathtaking experience.

Before you jump into the dungeon together, get to know each other outside of the dungeon first.
What makes BDSM so intense is that you share a very vulnerable moment of your life with someone special and trustworthy.

How to establish trust.

Begin by talking to each other outside of the bedroom. See if they are willing to share things with you.
What to look for.
1) Do their words match their actions?
2) They have no interest in getting to know you.
3) They believe every submissive is below them.
4) Do they understand a submissive can't serve without trust?

BDSM is fun, but it's also serious play.
You are the one in charge.
1) Never play with someone you don't know and or trust.
2) Never consume drugs and alcohol before or during or after a play/training session.
3) Only use your own toys: Floggers, canes, dildos and other BDSM sex toys.
4) Always practice protected safe sex.
Sex technique
     Latex gloves
     Condoms
     Dental Dams

Slave training part 1

1sr step realization followed by research

You may begin to experiment with yourself to determine exactly what it is you are looking for?
Do you feel the need to play Master to a servant or to serve a Master?
Do you enjoy just a little bit of pain or a lot?
Do you like the idea of being restrained?
To ask yourself to know what sort of relationship into which you should enter.
The only key to happiness is the way you think in life.
You need to understand what is truly troubling you and work on resolving those issues.
You need to think for yourself how you can manage your problems and then enjoy the time you spend with your partner in the bedroom.