I submit

I submit because it's satisfying and I crave it, but that doesn't explain why.
I submit because I lack self discipline and I need to be accountable for my mistakes. I need structure and guidance in order to function.
Being able to submit, it makes me a better person.
I'm aware I can do this on my own and I can do this and achieve my goals on my own, but actually fellow through its a struggle and most likely won't happen.
To submit and do this it has to be with the right person to allow Him to help me achieve what I need to do.
Has a Dominant needs to guide, support and protect and in return as submissive I feel the need to be protected. I follow equally and support my Dominant by submitting to Him.
I have tendency to over help people and stretch myself to thin without hesitation, without having the force behind me I exhaust myself as I done in the past. I need rules put in place. I need to know what to expect.

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Author Natalie. S.

He never asked

Never asked to kneel
I gave freely

Never ordered me to obey
I gave freely

I surrender freely

My body, heart, mind, and soul

And all that should remain of me
I gave freely

I'm dedicated

To what bonds us both

My life

Is happy at His feet



© Dom to sub love
Author Natalie. S.

Trust your horse

When I was training for barrel racing my grandpa always said trust your horse. Lately I been thinking alot about that lesson what did he really mean was there more to it. I think there could be. When I was riding my horse we were one everyone said when they watch me said you natrule when it comes to riding. You ride with the horse. He leads you follow when we were in that arena there nothing but me and my horse everything else did not matter.

Now I look at my D/s relationship it the same I put my trust in my Master everything else does not matter. My Master leads I follow.

If you put your trust in a relationship it work everything else doesn't matter you need to have that trust for it work.

This is what my grandpa was telling me for it to work you have to trust or you will fail. What happens when you fail you fall off the horse.

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Behavior

A submissive behavior should be very lady like. Any temper tantrum, lying, casual swearing, showing disrespect to his friends, being drunk in public, or any kind of public scene is huge disrespect to him and is couse for a  more serious punishment.
A good submissive should know to be on best behavior and want to make him look good in public because she knows she repersent him and it please him.


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I am a submissive

You have these moments at 2am, laying in bed your mind wonders. You get these nagging feelings. So you tell yourself your being stupid, so you shake it off. And your back to to saying everything alright you are back being satisfied.
But these feelings keep occurring are triggers, by interaction with people that can't handle you correctly or understand you. It's like you live in tunal. You don't know witch way to turn. You feel alone, lost scard. She looks in the mirror "Who am I?"
Your watching TV you see people fucking, it turns you on. And your friends laugh and joke about the scene but you understand the scene, and you have the arge to touch yourself. "Who am I?"
Your at the store and you see a sexy a sexy outfit, You know no one wears it that hag out with. But you have the feeling and the need to wear it. "Who am I?
You have this craving and this powerful need to ask permission to eat, sleep, work how I dress, when I workout, spend, drive, and orgasm." "Who I am?"
I kneel before Him with so much pride, love, and I feel safe, I feel at home with Him. He cares for all my needs, He sees throw me. I am able to be who I am with Him
I am a submissive and that is who I am.


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Slave training part three Becoming a better you

What makes a good submissive, and what the submissive can work on to inprove themselves.

Respectful - Show your Dominant respect. As a submissive you should come from a place of giving.

Polite - Goes along with respectful.

Key factor - You must remember every time you step out your front door you are representing yourself, your training, and your Dominant. Being rude and disrespectful to others looks bad not only on you, but it looks very bad on your Dominant. Make your Dominant proud showing how well behaved you are.

Honest - Dominant needs your honesty to be able to Dominant you and know they are not hurting or harming you in any way shape or form.

Good communicater - Much of what a submissive does is listen and learn from their Dominant.

Open - A good submissive is always open to the idea that they are never perfect and are always learning whether it's
        - New way to serve your Dominant
        - Improve yourself
        - Better submissive

Supportive - Willing to stick with Dominant through the tough times.

Can admit and accept a mistake -

Trust -  Trust is earned but at the same time it can't work unless there is trust.

Trust worthy - A Dominant needs to know they can trust you to be open and honest about your thoughts, feelings, and emotions.

Confidence - No body wants to Dominant a submissive with no confidence.

Loyal - Happy to be in your (Dom) service, open, vulnerable, and happy.

Dedication - If you are choosing to enter into service, then you need to dedicate yourself to the choice you made. ( Choosing to be submissive to a Dominant is a beautiful gift )

Kind and considerate - Always looks good representing a Dominant when out in the world.

Empathy and sympathy - A submissive needs to be empathetic, understanding and supportive will create an unbreakable bond.

Find pleasure from pleasing -

Gratitude - feel honored and grateful for being allowed to serve the Dominant. Show gratitude, be thankful.
   - Be picky who you choose
   - Take your time
   - Choose your Dominant wisely, but love the Dominant deeply when they treat you right.

Slave training part 1

1sr step realization followed by research

You may begin to experiment with yourself to determine exactly what it is you are looking for?
Do you feel the need to play Master to a servant or to serve a Master?
Do you enjoy just a little bit of pain or a lot?
Do you like the idea of being restrained?
To ask yourself to know what sort of relationship into which you should enter.
The only key to happiness is the way you think in life.
You need to understand what is truly troubling you and work on resolving those issues.
You need to think for yourself how you can manage your problems and then enjoy the time you spend with your partner in the bedroom.

I need and don't need

Talk to me and cummcation with me like this.
I need you to ........
I want you to ........
You have to ..........
I would appreciate it if ......
Would you please .........

I need a clear direction. Manage me, stroke my neck, ask me to look into your eyes, explain to me, tell me to hold your hand, tell me how you want it done, tell me how it is going to be.

I don't need this

Vague opinions
Possibilities
Open ended options
Opportunity to dissection to every single thing
Conversation

I don't want to discuss or having to make tiny decisions it brings me to cold sweet and anxiety.

You lead I follow

Happeness with my Dominant

It's when we infect each other with our own language,
Our own phrases.
Our expression for one another.
It's catching his eyebrow.
Hearing his words of love.
When he says mine.
Or I love you sub.
The pet names he calls me.


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What my Dominant dose

I been asked what dose my Dominant do for me?
A Dominant Job is to be in tune with the submissive wants, needs and desires. He wouldn't be much of a man if he can't do that for the woman in his care.
The ultimate power rest with submissive.
Because submissive control Dominant actions.
Dominant wants to please submissive. It's very inportant to Dominant that he please you.
He wants you to be satisfied. He wants you to be spoiled, pampered, and charished.
That you don't want to be anywhere but with him at all times.

This is what my Dominant does for me.

Offering your submission

When offering your submission to a Dominant.

You are giving the Dominant all your decisions.
Your putting the Dominant in charge of your well being.
That means giving control of your mental and emotional health.
You are giving total control of your body of what you can and cannot do with it.


So ask yourself before you submit.
How well do you know this person?
Can I trust the Dominant respect my safe word?
Can I trust won't suddenly leave me?
Can I trust the person?

Things i have gained from submitting to my Sir

Structure
Discipline
Guidance
Freedom
Communication
Being myself
Growth
Understanding
Unconditional love
Peace of mind
Clarity
Patience

These are some of the things I have gained from submitting to my Sir

When you submit to right person everything comes into place. But you
have to work hard for it. It shouldn't seem like work when you are doing
it together.


©Dom to sub love Author Natalie. S.

Shaving your vagina

1) Rub body oil in the area to help soften the hair.
2) Rub hair conditioner Do not use shaving cream.
3) Use brand new razer (disposable).
4) Use very warm water but not hot shave in the direction hair grows
Shaving up would bring you closest, smoothest shave.
5) Rise with cold water.


Note Witch hazel can be used for healing micro cuts.

Apply deodorant unscented to prevent razor bumps

Keep the area dry and free of lotion water ect

Do not irate the area for 2-3 hours