Help our soldier's in need

 Forwarded from a soldier friend of mine 

Since it’s September 11th and Patriot Day, I wanted to pass along an email that a friend of mine who’s a combat veteran sent me.

 

Every September 11th my family does some service and donates money to a worthy cause.

 

Below is the email from my buddy about one of the worthy causes I donate to.

 

Please take a minute to read his words below on this somber day…

 

Afghanistan has collapsed into ruin.

 

And after 20 years of wars in the region, our soldiers and veterans who fought bravely in combat are asking themselves...

 

... "Was it all worth it?"

 

The "battle buddies" lost to enemy fire?

 

Arms and legs lost to improvised explosive devices along the road?

 

The carnage of soldiers and civilians - innocent men, women, and children - left in pieces at the sick will of a cowardly "suicide bomber"?

 

In the words of, Dan Caldwell, a Marine who recently spoke with USA Today, 

 

"Just about every place that I served was overtaken,” he said. “I went through a range of emotions when that happened: I was angry, somewhat depressed. I felt empty. And I think that a lot of Afghanistan veterans are struggling with that, and they're struggling with it in their own unique way.”

 

Dan is right.

 

Veterans deal with the effects of combat post-traumatic stress dis-order (known as "CPTSD") as best they can, but the result is often a life filled with drugs, alcohol, and paralyzing depression.

 

And sadly, for too many veterans, their suffering doesn't have a happy ending.

 

In fact, while we've lost a little over 7,000 soldiers in combat in the last 2 decades of war... 

 

... we've lost about 79,000 to "veteran suicide" in that same time period!

 

Did you catch that?

 

We've lost over 10 TIMES the number of vets to PTSD AFTER combat as we have on the battlefield.

 

I know you agree that this CAN'T go on, right?

 

Our combat veterans need your help more than EVER right now...

 

"Operation Save Our Soldiers" - our registered 501(c)(3) non-profit - is sponsoring our next "Warrior Retreat" this September, where 12 veterans suffering from combat-related PTSD will finally get the support they need to overcome their symptoms...

 

... in as little as just ONE 2-hour session using a unique type of therapy (called "Rapid Resolution Therapy") that really is saving lives.

 

I know that sounds impossible, but I've seen it work soldier after soldier - and I've personally experienced how powerful and "instant" the Rapid Resolution Therapy works on erasing the negative effects of combat-related PTSD and the haunting visions of war.

 

In fact, one struggling veteran who attended a recent Retreat had this to say at the end of his session...

 

"I don't even know how to explain this to my 'battle-buddies' back home. We've tried everything the VA threw at us and nothing really helped that much.  But THIS is like 'voodoo sh*t'!  I can't believe how different I feel!"

 

Yes, we're really making that kind of a difference!

 

And with the help of our Operation Save Our Soldiers donors, soldiers pay NOTHING for the help they receive at the "Warrior Retreats".

 

Nothing!

 

The way we see it, our veterans have already paid the price, and it's our commitment as proud, patriotic Americans to help them reclaim their lives when they come back home from duty. 

 

To save their family... their careers... and often their very lives.

 

ALL of our contributions come from patriots just like YOU, giving small tax-deductible donations. 

 

That means from time to time, we have to ask for your help - and TODAY is one of those days…

 

Can our combat veterans count on you to make just a small $5 tax-deductible donation today to help directly sponsor a soldier for our next "Warrior Retreat"?

 

100% of your donation goes to sponsor a soldier!

 

Every last penny of it!

 

I personally pay for all of our non-profit's admin expenses out of my own pocket to make sure that you know your donation is going directly to help a combat veteran turn their life around and finally end their suffering.

 

With your help, their suffering will end for good at this upcoming Warrior Retreat.

 

Thank you for your gift and your patriotism.

 

May God bless you, our troops, their families, and the United States of America!

 

Jeff Anderson

Combat Veteran; SSG, US Army

Executive Director

Operation Save Our Soldiers, Inc.

A Registered 501(c)(3) Non-Profit

https://operationsaveoursoldiers.networkforgood.com/projects/108546-supporting-our-troops-with-the-help-of-spy-briefing

Secrets behind fearless style

 Love makeup Spend a little every month on a new look and or freshen up a look, so you keep your look fresh. 

My day is normally like this 

A workout 

A run or a walk  (I like to switch it up)

Then I run my errands (If I have any)

Then clean house 

Then I do my writing (if I have a class I do that0

then my posting 

Cook dinner

then yoga 

finish with bath (or shower)

I  live in yoga pants no need to get all dressed up.

My inspiration: I see something I like I go after it.(with permission of course) 

so I hope this answer some of those questions

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From the submissive at Dom to sub love 

Goal setting

 

1. “Make your goals S.M.A.R.T."
• S = Specific
• M = Measurable
• A = Attainable
• R = Relevant
• T = Time-bound
2. Write down your goals (I like doing this the night before I go to bed)
3. Be positive about your goals. You can do them.
4. Be accountable of your goals; do not let anyone or anything stand in your way.
5. Make a plan but be flexible. A goal without plans is just a wish.” (Strong Viking, 2018).

Victorian values in the new age

 it should still be applied in today's world. it was even applied in the bible eara and in the Muslim world if you look into it more you will see it and it's a woman's duty to be submissive to her family and home. 

Victoian values dominated America social life for much of 19 century 

The men worked and involved in politics. why 

The women took care of the house and the children. maybe some domestic work that didn't take them away from the family. 

I believe that's the way it should be we wouldn't have all these things happening with our children in today's world because the parent would be involved with there children. and meals on the table like it should be. 

Sex became loosening in the private but yet few were brave enough to talk about it. 

in today's world that most everything you see on the internet that unhealthy for children yes I'm an erotic writer but I'm careful I keep it to private groups and age screens so this is a very hard topic, sex is just meanless in today's world sadly. 

women became more educated but shut out from many professions that the men started.

women have no place in a lot of things it takes them away from being a mom and being home with the family like she should be and look at all the rap cases some of it probably could have been stopped 

I'm not judgmental but women need a place and that keeps the world balanced out. 

PLACE TO CREAT

 You must have the room or a certain hour of the day or so where you do not know what is in the morning paper. A place where you can simply experience and bring forth what you are and what your mint to be. At first, you may think nothing happening, but if you have a sacred space and take advantage of it and use it every day something will happen.

25 ways to be respectful to your Dom or even Husband

1)  Choose joy - Don't use His/Her mood against Him/her, we all have bad days

2) Honor His/her wishes - What your Dom/Husband thinks is important. Make those your priority 9 having dinner ready when He/she comes home, house tidy limit your computer time when He/she home.)

3) Give your Dom/Husband undivided attention - When He/She is speaking drop everything and look into His/her eyes

4) Don't interrupt - Don't cut him off when He is speaking this shows respect to Him

5) Emphasize His Good points - Don't dwell on His faults instead focus on His good quality and admire them.

6) Pray for Him - pray for Him daily you will notice a transformation not only Him but you

7) Don't nag - He's a grown man, not a child

8) Be thankful - Don't have an attitude have gratitude don't take Him for granted.

9) Smile at Him - Smiles spread happiness 

10) Respon Physically - Don't push Him away when trys to hug you or make excuses when your not in the mood.

11) Eyes for only Him - Don't compare Him to another man

12) Kiss Him goodbye greet Him the right way coming or going

13) Prepare His favorite foods - make His favorite foods at least 3-4 times a week to honor Him when planning your meals always have Him in mind. 

14) Cherish togetherness - always sit near or next to Him

15) Don't complain - no one likes to hear a complainer 

16) resist the urge to correct - Never correct Him 

17) Dress to Please Him - Take care of your appearance in and out of the house you represent Him

18) Keep the house tidy - keep clean and tidy 

19) Be content - Don't pressure Him

20) - Take His advise - Don't dismiss him 

Dom to sub love 

Becoming a better you.

What makes a good submissive? and what can the submissive do to improve themselves?  Lets over some key parts. 

Respectful - Show the Dominant respect. as a submissive, you showed come from a place of giving. 

Polite - Goes along with respect.