What a Dominant is like

   A Dominant can be very gentle and He can be very nice. A Dominant enforce structure. There are many ways to do that, punishments and stern words is just one way. You don't need to be mean to mean to her in less you have a cause to. Give her positive reinforcement to the things she does right, then constantly harping on the few negatives. You reather give a submissive ten thousand words praise then words of criticism.
   There are Dominants who are obsessed with punishments and negative words. It may work for some but not all. A good Dominant is their core, a good leader. A good leader not always yelling, gripping to find falts. No they build people up, make them feel like they accomplish something. A Dominant is the same way builds His submissive up.


© Dom to sub love Author Natalie. S.