Victorian values in the new age

 it should still be applied in today's world. it was even applied in the bible eara and in the Muslim world if you look into it more you will see it and it's a woman's duty to be submissive to her family and home. 

Victoian values dominated America social life for much of 19 century 

The men worked and involved in politics. why 

The women took care of the house and the children. maybe some domestic work that didn't take them away from the family. 

I believe that's the way it should be we wouldn't have all these things happening with our children in today's world because the parent would be involved with there children. and meals on the table like it should be. 

Sex became loosening in the private but yet few were brave enough to talk about it. 

in today's world that most everything you see on the internet that unhealthy for children yes I'm an erotic writer but I'm careful I keep it to private groups and age screens so this is a very hard topic, sex is just meanless in today's world sadly. 

women became more educated but shut out from many professions that the men started.

women have no place in a lot of things it takes them away from being a mom and being home with the family like she should be and look at all the rap cases some of it probably could have been stopped 

I'm not judgmental but women need a place and that keeps the world balanced out. 

PLACE TO CREAT

 You must have the room or a certain hour of the day or so where you do not know what is in the morning paper. A place where you can simply experience and bring forth what you are and what your mint to be. At first, you may think nothing happening, but if you have a sacred space and take advantage of it and use it every day something will happen.

25 ways to be respectful to your Dom or even Husband

1)  Choose joy - Don't use His/Her mood against Him/her, we all have bad days

2) Honor His/her wishes - What your Dom/Husband thinks is important. Make those your priority 9 having dinner ready when He/she comes home, house tidy limit your computer time when He/she home.)

3) Give your Dom/Husband undivided attention - When He/She is speaking drop everything and look into His/her eyes

4) Don't interrupt - Don't cut him off when He is speaking this shows respect to Him

5) Emphasize His Good points - Don't dwell on His faults instead focus on His good quality and admire them.

6) Pray for Him - pray for Him daily you will notice a transformation not only Him but you

7) Don't nag - He's a grown man, not a child

8) Be thankful - Don't have an attitude have gratitude don't take Him for granted.

9) Smile at Him - Smiles spread happiness 

10) Respon Physically - Don't push Him away when trys to hug you or make excuses when your not in the mood.

11) Eyes for only Him - Don't compare Him to another man

12) Kiss Him goodbye greet Him the right way coming or going

13) Prepare His favorite foods - make His favorite foods at least 3-4 times a week to honor Him when planning your meals always have Him in mind. 

14) Cherish togetherness - always sit near or next to Him

15) Don't complain - no one likes to hear a complainer 

16) resist the urge to correct - Never correct Him 

17) Dress to Please Him - Take care of your appearance in and out of the house you represent Him

18) Keep the house tidy - keep clean and tidy 

19) Be content - Don't pressure Him

20) - Take His advise - Don't dismiss him 

Dom to sub love 

Becoming a better you.

What makes a good submissive? and what can the submissive do to improve themselves?  Lets over some key parts. 

Respectful - Show the Dominant respect. as a submissive, you showed come from a place of giving. 

Polite - Goes along with respect.